A few weeks ago I had the opportunity to attend the wedding of one of my closest high school friends. She got married at the age of 49 for the first time. How cool is that! The wedding was absolutely beautiful and as with most weddings I could not help but think about when Bryan and I said our nuptials over 13 years ago.
One of the songs in my friend's wedding was Whitney Houston's "I Believe In You and Me" which was the song I originally wanted for our wedding. However I was coached by our Minister of music to consider a song that was more aligned to the spiritual theme of our wetdding. Although I absolutely love Whitney's song, I was so happy for such great advice about our music. We went on a hunt to find something that was very fitting, told our story and touch our hearts from a spiritual perspective. Below is the song we selected. We changed a few of the lyrics to make it present and our own, like the word if to cause and loved to love. It is one of the songs from the broadway play Jekyll and Hyde.
Today I am honoring my husband by honoring the day we became one with the song that was sang while I walked down the aisle. During our premarital counseling the pastor stated if ever you find yourself questioning why you got married, take a moment to pray about and then watch your wedding video. I have found that listening to this song reminds me of all I may have forgotten in a moment of frustration. It reminds me of the love we have and how it has grown over the years.
If you find yourself in a place of frustration in your marriage, first pray and then listen to your wedding song, or watch your wedding video to help you gain perspective. Remember we can only change the world by starting with ourselves. When our hearts change, the hearts around us also change. Be the change you want to see in your marriage.
How beautiful you are, my darling! Oh, how beautiful! Your eyes are doves.
How handsome you are, my beloved! Oh, how charming! And our bed is verdant.
2 comments:
Good advice about listening to a special song
hi i need your advice; i used to honor my husband but we went thru some hard times. i got exhausted, cynical, and tired. i no longer put the focus on him. now he is working in ministry and lots of young ladies are all honoring him with their respect and adoration. i feel very hurt and left out...i feel like he is going to them because he didn't get that adoration from me. yet i can't make myself give it to him....i feel even angrier that he went outside to get it....please pray for me and advise me how to forgive and become what i need to be.
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