After reading both articles I was somewhat excited, a little disappointed but mostly I think I felt validated. I enjoyed the contents of both. The Essence article that stated secrets to black love I discovered was really an article about how important it is to have effective communication, clear expectations, ongoing shared activities, and a high degree of commitment and sharing of life experiences to keep love alive. To me these secrets are not just for African American or Black couples but for any couple that wants to have lasting love.
The Grace & Glory article focused on the importance of loving each other as God loves us. One of the things stated in the article was "You cannot surpass God's love but it does not hurt to try" I loved this little nugget. The author went on to say, "Give love, the gift that keeps on giving, and you and the recipient will not be disappointed." The article was written by Carla J. Debnam who is the wife of a Pastor I know very well. My thoughts after reading her article was, well done and well said. She spoke about how God's love is not limited and how we are to show love in action by not having limits.
Today I honored my husband with curiosity, mainly because my curiosity led me on a journey to discover some great secret or to find love unlimited. I am happy that as a result of reading both articles I felt I am on the right path, have activated the recommended secrets, and to try to love like Jesus in all my relationships. It was a nice validation.
Wives of the world how can you honor your husband's with curiosity? What things do you have questions about in your relationship or other areas that a little curious research can solve? How can you honor your husband with curiosity today? Please share your stories with us; we would love to hear from you.
Blessings,
Rochelle
"Curiosity is the lust of the mind." Thomas Hobbes
3 comments:
Great post! I am always trying to honor my husband, so your posts are timely and helpful.
Thanks, too, for commenting on my blog! Always great to see you!
Apparently, the secrets to love cross all boundaries!! :) I guess the one secret that might apply exclusively to an African-American couple compared to a white couple (or whatever ethnicity you might want to add here) is sharing the traditions of that culture - such as the "jumping the broom" custom I've heard of OR other such traditions that are somewhat exclusive to one ethnic group or the other .... but in the end, as you said, those REAL secrets of love are universal and cover all people because at the core we are all craving someone to love us, communicate with us, and meet our unique needs - and if we have God in the midst of those desires, it is ever more wonderful. Great post for thought today, Rochelle!!
Thank you Conny and Lauren for your posts. Lauren I am glad the site is helpful to you as you honor your husband and I am glad to see you as well.
Conny it is always a pleasure to see you. Thanks for the reminder about those cultural differences that might add something different to the mix.
Always nice to see you both.
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