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I Will Honor My Husband blog site began as a wife's journey to love, honor and cherish her husband everyday for one full year in 2011. The experience was so awesome that I am continuing the journey. As the Lord guides me I will continue to post about how I am honoring my husband on at least a weekly basis. This blog is for me and other wives to learn how to be more intentional in demonstrating our love, honor and respect for our husbands in a way that matters to them most. Last year it was a challenge and a goal to make it a habit, this year I hope to realize the habit as a way of life. I welcome, encourage and invite you to - Join the Movement! and let the world know you honor your husband.

My prayer is that marriages and lives will be changed across the globe by the expression of "One Year of Love". Please send me a picture of you and your husband so the world will know you have joined the movement.

Rochelle

"The Lord, your God is testing you to find out whether you love him with all your heart and all your soul." Deut. 13:3

Friday, December 30, 2011

Day 306 Honoring My Husband's Leadership

Bryan has been in the real estate investment business for 20 years.  During hurricane Irene one of our properties was damaged because a huge tree fell over.  Fortunately the damage to the actual property was minor however the tree expanded beyond property lines on to our neighbors property because it was so large.  This is a property that requires inspection and to pass the inspection we had to ensure all the debris from the tree was removed from the back yard. 

We found workers that do yard work and trash removal.  Bryan instructed me to ensure the guys cleared the lot of the wood as well as the leaves and debris.  When they proceeded to lift the logs they stated they were too heavy.  I explained this to Bryan and he stated if they cannot remove the logs, we don't need them.  To give you perspective, the circumference of the tree trunk was between 90 to 100 inches and they were cut in fairly large pieces.  As the workers were preparing to clean the fallen leaves, Bryan lifted one of the logs and stated if two men could not lift them they were not worth paying.  I realized at this time that my husband and I have a very different levels of compassion when it comes to workers.  So I did as he instructed and explained to them the expectation and wouldn't you know it they got it done with a little help from a few other guys. 

I was reminded of a leadership quote I heard a while ago, "People will rise up to the expectation you create."  I remembered that when there is something on the line, people will rise to the occassion whether they like it or not.  Today I honored my husband's leadership by following through on his request to push and ensure the workers earned their pay for the work we needed completed.  I know if it were not for Bryan it would have cost us a lot more money to complete the same job.  I am always grateful when my husband reminds me of great lessons in leadership.

Wives of the world how can you or do you honor your husband's leadership?  Please share your stories with us as we would love to hear and learn from you.

Blessings,

Rochelle

"Leadership: the art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he wants to do it.
Dwight D. Eisenhower

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