My school program is and has been very intense, at times requiring an extensive amount of time. This has meant that he has gone for days without me cooking dinner, the house not always being in order, clothes not being washed and my lack of ability to help him with his business. On yesterday he said to me, "Honey, I know you are studying for your comp exam, so please don't worry about dinner and do what you need to do to finish school." I was not surprised by his comment, however I was very appreciative of it.
I also realized how patient he has been over the years. When I am getting dressed for us to go out, I am pretty slow and he will simply sit and watch TV until I am ready. He does this when we are going pretty much anywhere and typically does not tell me to hurry up, he just waits. I never thought about this as being patient because when it comes to him dealing with the outside world or things with his business he has very little patience. I am quite pleased that I recognize and can honor the patience he displays towards me when it comes to these things. Today I am honoring and appreciating my husband's patience because he deserves to be recognized for his efforts in this arena.
Wives of the world how can or do you honor your husband's patience? Is he or you the more patient one in your relationship? If it is you, in what ways does your husband display patience that you can honor? Is he patient with the children, with your schedule, with others, in whatever way he demonstrates patience it is evidence the skill and ability is there and worthy of recognition. When we recognize someone for the good in something they believe to be a challenge for them, it gives them the incentive to continue working on improving in that area.
Blessings,
Rochelle
"Patience is a virtue worth honoring, no matter the amount. It's the effort that matters." RAS
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