Day 67 Honoring My Husband By Seeking Help

Hello wives of the world, today I am honoring my husband by seeking help from those of you who have a few more years in than my husband and I do or from those of you that are full of wisdom.  My husband has his own business and I left my full time work to pursue my business about a year ago.  My husband and I seem to have this continuing source of contention in our marriage as it relates to the concept of help.

He would like me to help with his business, however whenever I ask him what does that look like he gives me an assignment or says something like I don't know maybe you can do this or do that.  My dilemma is, I would like to help, yet I feel like my hands are tied because I do not know the ins and out of his business.  At the same time, I am building my business, have clients to serve, I am in school and have the responsibility of taking care of the home.  I believe the source of contention is that our definition or understanding of the concept of help is different.

Wives of the world, my request for help is, I would really like to know from you all in what ways do you provide help to your husband's in his work?  In what ways do you demonstrate support either emotionally, physically or otherwise while maintaining the things you need to manage like your work, the home, school if it applies and taking care of the family for those of you with children?  Please share your stories; I can really use some insight in this arena. 

Blessings,

Rochelle

The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”        Genesis 2:18