So today I honored my husband with meaningful conversation by engaging him in conversation about his youth. We have been together for over 17 years and it is amazing to me how there is always more to learn. We engaged in an awesome conversation about how things that transpired in our youth show up for us today in both a positive and constructive manner. We were able to link current behavior with past incidents, which was awesome for me given my field of study. I am so intrigued by the aspect of human behavior and why we do what we do. It was a great time as we both had new insights and was able to enjoy each other's company as we learned more about each other.
Today I honored my husband with meaningful conversation because I know how much he enjoys the aspect of dialogue; I love to watch how he lights up as he shares any great story. He is a phenomenal story teller and when he's in the zone, he's in the zone.
Wives of the world, in what ways can you or do you honor your husband with meaningful conversation? The key word is meaningful, which I define as gaining some new insight. What would happen if you changed your conversation with your husband so that he is more engaged if he is not one for a lot of dialogue. Try engaging him in a discussion about his youth and see where it takes him and you and please share your story with us.
Blessings,
Rochelle
"Let your conversation be always full of grace.." Col 4:6
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3 comments:
It’s a wonderful thing that Bryan loves to engage in conversation. The topic of who he was once upon a time was something that he found pleasure in sharing with you and in him doing that you both were able to find pleasure in meaningful conversation. For many women it may be a little more challenging to get a conversation out of their better half but I don’t think it’s impossible. There are several things a woman can do if her man doesn’t naturally like to chew the fat with her. First I think we should try to talk about things that interest him. Get to know what he likes whether it’s sports or a hobby, educate yourself on the topic and start talking to him about it. Most people like to talk about things that interest them and men are no different. You could also ask him to tell you something about himself that he’s never shared with anyone else and you do the same. This would allow him the ability to feel safe and pull you closer emotionally not only as his mate but also as his friend. And last I believe timing is everything. Try and pick a time to talk when the two of you are not preoccupied doing other things and can give each other the undivided attention needed to have a meaningful conversation.
Hello,I agree
conversation with your partner is up most important in a marriage wether it is kids,work or just a sit down convo about what happen today or something someone said to you in the day to start it going it is a great feeling you have for each other and you get a bond that sometimes we forget that is there.
Thank you ladies, I agree with you both. There is nothing like the intimacy of a conversation to make the difference in the intensity of a relationship.
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