Day 226 Honoring My Husbands Desires

My day was pretty jammed packed today.  It started early this morning and I had a full day client session  scheduled and a meeting after that with a potential client.  My brain feels like it is on overdrive.  Bryan has been talking about going to the movies for the past two weeks.  Each time we tried, it was my schedule that got in the way and today he was willing to give up going so I could complete some other work I have pending.  However I decided it would be best for me to honor my husband's request to see a movie this evening.

This is another one of those win/win scenarios. He gets to see the movie he has been wanting to see and I get to veg my brain for a couple of hours, pretty cool deal.  Yet I know relaxing my brain will be the last thing I do.  I love trying to see the story behind the story in a movie.  I pay attention to the psychological dancing to see what psychology or group theory emerges for me.  So in actuality it will not be a time of mental vegging but a time of intellectual stimulation which in a sense is how I relax.
Today I am honoring my husband's desire to be intellectually entertained while I am intellectually stimulated. 

Each time we go to the movies, on the way home, I always ask him so what was the message in that movie.  He hates that question because he knows it is followed up with my theoretical perspective which often leads us into a debate about the story and the message behind the story.  I'm actually looking forward to it.

Wives of the world how can you honor your husband's desires today?  Is there something he has been wanting to do and for whatever reason you, your schedule, life demands has not allowed it?  How can you find the win/win in honoring his desires today?  Please share your stories with us; we would love to hear from you.

Blessings,

Rochelle